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'Run for the Fallen' coming to Bonners Ferry

May 5, 2011
At the mile marker commemorating Sergeant Joshua Kirk: Peg Rogers, Donna Culbertson, Tracy Bartlett, Anthony Collins, unknown, Amy Bryant, Bernadette Kirk-Bonner, Johnna Sohner, Liz Fulton, Jennifer Solt, Mark Collins, Joyce Rose, and in front, Jessica Tingley and Adam Arthur.
Last year, more than 8,300 runners in 45 states and two countries ran over 49,000 miles in honor of U.S. service members who gave their lives in service to their country in Operation Iraqi Freedom.

On August 20 of this year, "Run for the Fallen" makes its Idaho debut in Bonners Ferry to honor 51 service members who paid the ultimate sacrifice with ties to this great state. Though in the early stages of planning, 14 Idaho Gold Star families who've lost a loved one will be participating.

The goal, which should easily be doubled, is to have 250 people participating in the run, to honor both Idaho's Gold Star families and the heroes they lost.

"Run for the Fallen" began in the summer of 2008, when a small group of civilians ran 4,000 mile across America. Their mission was to run one mile for every service member killed in Operation Iraqi Freedom.

1LT Mike Cleary
The inspiration for the event was First Lieutenant Michael J. Cleary, Dallas, Pennsylvania, who was killed in action in Ad Duluiyah, Iraq, just ten days before his scheduled return home.

His best friend and college roommate, Jon Bellona, founded the "Run for the Fallen" in his memory, with the one goal of bringing people together to honor, remember and pay tribute to loved ones, family and friends who had given their lives in Iraq.

That run began on Flag Day 2008 in Fort Irwin, California, and ended 77 days later in Arlington National Cemetery.

The team marked each mile, posting an American flag and a personalize postcard in memory of each fallen soldier.

Sergeant Joshua Kirk
In 2010, a local family, led by mother Bernadette Kirk-Bonner, were invited to participate in a "Run for the Fallen" event in Maine, where Joshua Kirk was born July 19, 1979. The family moved to Bonners Ferry in 1983, and Josh grew up here before returning to the state of his birth to attend college. After studying for about two years, he made the decision to quit school and join the Army.

"He was in his mid-20s by then," his sister, Jessica Tingley, said, "so older than most recruits, but the Army was definitely good for him."

He enlisted from South Portland, Maine, and attained the rank of Sergeant, serving with the 3rd Squadron, 61st Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, of the storied 4th Infantry Division, Fort Carson, Colorado.

On October 3, 2009, SGT Kirk, 30, died of wounds suffered when enemy forces attacked his outpost with small arms, rocket-propelled grenades and artillery. He died beside seven comrades-in-arms in that single, 12-hour action, all of whom had volunteered to serve following the September 11, 2001, attacks, in a month that claimed the lives of 15 4th Division soldiers ... the worst month in Division history since the Vietnam war.

"Joshua really and truly cared about his fellow soldiers," Jessica said. "They were his extended family and the main reason he reenlisted when his time was up."

"They were helping make a difference when they were taken from us," said Major Dan Chandler of the eight who died October 3.

One of the men involved in that battle, Blake Jones, had earlier become one of the men who looked up to Sergeant Kirk. Shortly before they deployed, Kirk talked to Blake's Mom and Dad, and assurred them that their son would never be more than a few feet away from him, and he promised them that he would get their son home safe.

Blake was wounded in that fight, and awarded the Bronze Star for his valor. But he came home.

"I would follow that man to hell if he thought it was a good thing to do," Blake said in eulogizing his sergeant. "He earned the nickname, 'Combat Kirk' because whenever it was time to do business, he suited up and acted like he could beat Rambo at anything."

Last year, in honor of Sergeant Joshua J. Kirk, the son of one Vietnam veteran and the nephew of another, the organizer of Maine's "Run for the Fallen," John Mixon, asked Bernadette, a cheery face familiar at the checkout line to all of us who buy groceries in Bonners Ferry, if it would be okay to honor her son in their run.

Not only was it okay, but the family was moved by the request, and they flew to Maine to take part.

"It was a wonderful tribute to so many soldiers," Jessica said. "It was equally wonderful to meet and share our loss with other families. For example, Josh was killed at COP (combat outpost) Keating, and COP Keating was named after Benjamin Keating, who was born and raised not two hours away from where Josh was born. We got to meet Keating's family, and it was amazing how many similarities there were between our families ... having other families to relate to really is a huge comfort, and a huge part of the coping and healing process."

Though he enlisted in South Portland, Maine, and this community wasn't privileged with the news of his service by the Hometown News Release program of the military, from his elistment to his graduation to his death on the field of battle, Sergeant Joshua Kirk was and is a Bonners Ferry, Idaho, hero.

At 7:45 a.m. Saturday, August 20, 2011, at Veteran's Park ... beside a memorial on the grounds of the library, yet to be etched with more names of those of our neighbors who've fallen in service to our nation, and beneath the billowing flag they died defending, runners will gather.

Afterwards, at the Boundary County Fairgrounds, there will be a rememberance service, and a chance for reflection, for support.

Organizers who've suffered the loss of a loved one hope only to be joined by others who've lost.

You can read more and help by visiting www.runforthefallenidaho.org, or by visiting their Facebook page by clicking here.
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